Recent dream 2 - Dreaded hair

I had a dream last night...that I (very alternatively like) married my first boyfriend. It was more of a non-traditional marriage, really, because my husband and his wife were there - but it was a different type of being there for both of them - my hubbie was there in person, and his wife was there via video cam, so I could see w-a-y in the back of the group that had gathered, but she wasn't there in the strict sense of the word.
So we were sitting Indian-style (who uses that phase anymore anyway?) and it was both my HS friends who were friends with both of us in HS, and then some other people who seem to be college folks, in that I had to run to one of their houses (where many people slept) to ask some question about a schedule of some sort, before we could have the ceremony and all.
So I woke up the morning of the wedding, and we had spent the night together, so it was all warm and cuddly - but I was facing a dilemma of sorts, because I had to decide what to wear to my wedding and how to do my hair. The hair question turned out easier than I expected - one of my girlfriends started twisting it, making it stick together, like dreads almost, and I liked that, so we did it to as much of my hair as possible. I wanted to stick with a 'natural' theme wedding and service. Then I was standing somewhere and cont. to twist my hair, and an old friend of my parents suddenly appeared next to me as we were standing on a hill watching the wedding start to come together, which ended up sorta like looking at a video displayed bus schedule or an arrive/departure scroll at the airport. He asked me if I had anything blue yet, and my reply was that it was too early to deal with that; I hadn't decided yet. Then I remember standing on my head, or being in this weird yoga position, so as to let him know (I never liked this guy in real life anyway - he was kind of a creeper) that I was being independent and this was a non-traditional type of wedding.
I was back in the bedroom right after that (like John and Yoko in bed type of thing) and my first boyfriend was starting to drink champagne and I was a little worried that he starting too early. (We see each other now and I'm worried about his drinking in general). The feeling tone for this dream was of wonder and freedom for me - I was going to marry my first love, but our hubbies and wives were there, not expressively approving, but not freaking out in negativity. I could love who I wanted!