Monday, March 17, 2008

Bennett James Hassink 1926-2008


Bennett James Hassink, passed along in Berkeley, CA on Monday February 25th (Lamat Star 8), 2008, at the age of 81, from congestive heart failure.

He was born in Cleveland, Ohio in March 1926, where he was married to Mildred Pugh. Bud and Millie could be considered one of the early ‘bohemian’ couples during the early 1960s. Millie, a talented artisan and jeweler, bore him his first daughter March. Their home on Wadena St in East Cleveland was always full of interesting people- listening to electronically combined sounds and bits of recorded music that Bud mixed on reel-to-reel tapes, with lots of conversations, philosophical discussions, chess games. The music Bud made was far ahead of the synthesizer music and sounds on the 70s, and it had an ethereal yet melodic quality. He was routinely involved in the Cleveland music scene. Bud regularly brought his daughter, March, to the local be-ins in the park, and then went backstage at the La Cave Club to meet some of the musicians who regularly played there, such as the Velvet Underground and Janis Ian. Bud came to the SF bay area in the mid-60s. He was an early member, along with his good friend Ron Thelin, of the SF Diggers. Together the Diggers went on to start The Free Clinic and Food Services for Poor Youth in San Francisco. Bud hung out in the SF bay area during the height of the counter-culture movement, befriending many – Peter Coyote, some of the members of the Grateful Dead, Jefferson Airplane, etc.

Bud received a part in the film “The Last Movie” with Dennis Hopper, Michelle Philips, and Peter Fonda, which was filmed in Peru and released in 1971. He played a cowboy that was a member of Billy’s Gang.

Another life changing event was to happen in 1970, when Bud was staying with friends in Mendocino Co. and was shot by an acquaintance, 5 times at close range, with a large handgun. The details of exactly what happened that night never really emerged, but Bud miraculously survived. He always said afterwards that he didn’t hold anything against the person who shot him, and thought that the shooting had given him a second chance at life - that he was indeed reborn.

By 1973 Bud settled down in Berkeley, in the Elmwood District. He met Alice Meyers in this area, and his second daughter, Cebelle was born in 1975. He worked for many years for the Berkeley public schools supervising the playground during lunch time and recess, reading to the children from the Great Books program in the Library, helping kindergartners open their milk, helping them all find their way around the school, nursing their little hurts and truly befriending the youngsters. He made a huge impact on many young lives as evidenced by the number of young adults who would visit the Book store to say hello to Bud and tell stories of how he took care of them in their elementary school days.

During this same time, Bud was a frequent regular at Ozzie’s Soda Shop at the corner of College and Russell. He could often be found there with his good friend Ed Lindsey, sipping on chocolate malt and discussing the day’s events. Their meetings and the regular attendance at the Soda Shop was even chronicled in a book on the history of the Elmwood District.

From 1985 to the present, Bud worked at Lewin’s Metaphysical Bookstore on Ashby Ave. Literally hundreds of people, both regular and new customers of the bookstore, would stop by to say hello, buy a book, or most affectionately, have an interesting and dynamic conversation with Bud on an incredible variety of topics. On the days he wasn’t in the bookstore, he would attend the Arthur Young’s Institute presentations or UC Berkeley academic colloquiums and engagements.

In April of 1991, Bud traveled with his friend Alvin Warwas to the Yucatan peninsula in Mexico. There they visited the Mayan ruins and sites, as Bud was keenly interested in the historic development of the Mayan Calendar. Dzibilchaltun was a particularly important town to Bud that they visited. Recent visitors to the bookstore would usually be asked when their birthday was so Bud could look up their symbol, or glyph, for the Mayan ritual cycle, and then help them read and understand what the cycle symbol meant. Bud was indeed, in many more ways than any of us really knew, a WorldBridger


Surviving Bud is March Hajre-Chapman, daughter of Mildred Pugh, and Cebelle Hassink, daughter of Alice Bosworth Meyers, and his long-time partner, Yvonne Lewin.

A celebration of Bud’s life will be held on Sunday March 30th, 2008, at 2247 Ashby Avenue, Berkeley starting at 12 noon, with a tribute in his honor at 1pm.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hey Thirdmonth-

Your father sounds like an interesting person and a very dynamic man. It is a great loss to lose a parent. I know, because I recently lost my father in the past year, actually five months ago. I feel and understand some of the things (thoughts & emotions) you are experiencing right now - some are good/positive and some are bad and not so positive. I hope you have a good support system, because it makes all the difference in the world. I know my support system makes all the difference for me.

The times now are ones of reflection and rebirth of us- the beginning of a "new" period in the life cycle, not defined by chronological age or developmental stage of the life. In essence, it is a time to explore ourselves and figure out the parts of our own identities that we, as "I", developed in ourselves and those are parent or parents bestowed upon us. We figure out "what" we want to keep and which we want to discard.

I will come back to visit your blog soon and btw, I read some of your others postings and find them fascinating. Remember we are as dynamic as the one's who have created us; biology is just that way...

Plato... Human behavior flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge.